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Showing posts with label anniversary. Show all posts

Our 42nd wedding anniversary

Today was not quite as busy as it was for us (well for Susan who did all the work) 42 years ago in Roanoke, Virginia. We were married at the home of Bob and Margie Berry and it was a grand day indeed! Warm to be sure but certainly fun full of happy folks, smiling faces and plenty of fellowship.

August 6, 1983

We spent today going about our routine enjoying life's little things: workout at MVP for us both and Susie putting the final touches on her preparations for teaching a couple of curious teenagers how to make macarons tomorrow.

The highlight of the day was meeting up with friends Patty and Paul for dinner at Linear. The food was good, service fine and company, as always with those two, warm and full of lively conversation.

laughter always seems to be the hallmark of being around these two 

Susan had grilled salmon

I had the Bolognese

As the sun dropped ending another day we said adios to P & P and headed off for our car. Forty-two down so we're at about halfway. . . 



Update from Grand Rapids

This week brought an unusual confluence of events. 

First up was a fast-moving storm that came through late Thursday night; high winds and  a tornado warning mixed with the emergency siren going off had lots of us scrambling into our basements. Fortunately, no tornado was actually sighted but the ferocity of the 60 or so seconds of incredible winds left lots of us in this part of Michigan without power. 

That evening we joined several of our neighbors outside to review local damage damage and we were amazed at how many large branches had been ripped down. One tree at the entrance to Eaglecrest Drive actually ripped up and fell over on the power line but the line itself remained intact.

While we were pretty unscathed a trip around nearby neighborhoods -- in search of a charging station -- revealed the extent of the storm's damaging winds. Several houses had trees down on the, power lines torn down, and as seemingly endless variety of detritus littering streets, laws and even rooftops.


The power finally came back on at little after 1pm Saturday.

The second and by far  more pleasing event was a Van Halsema cousin get together out at the old Overview house, now the Great Lakes House, on Lake Michigan.  Susie and I picked up her mom about 3pm and met up with cousins Laurie and Jen and the five of us drove out to the get together. 

The drive took only about an hour or so.  For me, an only child (more or less) it was grand to see so many cousins renewing their bonds of family relationships, recalling with obvious fondness times spent growing up together and visits to Overview, all the while catching up on the details of all their various extended families.

One person was responsible for setting all this motion, Dick Van Halsema. It was his idea and he spent no small amount of time coordinating the arrangements and providing drinks and food, with some assistance from a few cousins. 

And to top it all off the day, 25 August, happened to be the 50th wedding anniversary of Jack and Wilma DeKorne. And Bernice got to see and catch up with so many of her nieces and nephews, most of whom she had not seen for far too many years.   

It was a truly special day. . . Plans were laid to repeat the event on August 24, 2024.

l-r: Helen Sterk, Laurie Ten Have Chapman, Dick Van Halsema, Dave DeKorne

Jack and Wilma

Barbara Jean DeKorne

Laurie Dick, Dave Clark Van Halsema, Jen Galloway

Tess Lindholm, her daughter-in-law Laurel, Susie

ruins of the original Overview cottage


113 steps to the beach



Dave and Jen

Jen and Susie




Don and Helen's 63rd wedding anniversary

It's not everyone who has had the pleasure of being at their parent's wedding.

Of course, you can make the argument that Don and Helen were not, as a couple, technically my biological parents. Don was my dad but Helen Bork Jones was my stepmother, although I never thought of her that way. She was always my mother. Maybe because she always treated me like her son. And she was for a time by babysitter and used to let me in to the Avon Theater in Decatur for free. How cool is that?!

Happy 63rd anniversary, Mom and Dad!

wedding day

Mom and Dad with Grandma Bork

Grilling out with friends at 510 S. Victor, Champaign

Visting the Watts family in Colordao Springs, c. 1963

Christmas and our first dog Sandy

1817 Crescent Drive, Champaign

510 S. Victor, Champaign


315 Westlawn, Decatur

Donald Wade Soper Sr

My dad loved his sons, his wife, Helen, and his many friends, all now long gone.

He was a man all about love. It defined him and carried him through 94 years.

 

 He's been gone since 2004 but he's always with me. . . every day.

And he loved this music: 


Thanks Pop! I love you!

Tunis VandenBerg 1921-1999

Husband, father, grandfather, brother, son, uncle, friend and  small town physician who was part of the Greatest Generation. . . Remembering his passing 20 years ago today.

c. 1943, navigator, B-24, U.S. Army Air Corps, World War Two


1942 Tunis (right) and his brother Len with Tune's new car, Grand Rapids, MI

Day trip to Midland, Michigan for our 33rd wedding anniversary

Strange as it might sound, spending the better part of our wedding anniversary in Midland, Michigan turned out to be a pretty good idea. David Whitescarver, a friend in the Alliance Française here in Grand Rapids, had suggested a trip to see the Alden Dow House -- Midland was the longtime home of the Herbert Dow family, as in Dow Chemical -- and he also recommended a place for lunch right in downtown Midland. So off we went.

It was a gorgeous day, low humidity, temps in the low 70s and traffic not too bad as we headed north of Route 131. We turned east on Route 46 until we reached Route 127 and then back north, turning east one last time on Route 20 just outside Mt. Pleasant.

Our first stop before Midland was a small cemetery just south of Coleman, Michigan to look for a particular civil war soldier's grave. Frank Lackey had served in both the 3rd Michigan infantry and in the 3rd New Jersey Cavalry. He survived the war, married and eventually settled in the Coleman area. Frank died in 1916 and was buried in Warren Township Cemetery. Unfortunately, after spending about 20 minutes searching for Frank we still had not found his grave -- and since we had a lunch reservations in Midland we climbed back into the car headed back east.

After another 30 minutes of driving we pulled onto Main Street in downtown Midland. The first thing that struck us was the volume of flowers; they were everywhere, even driving into the city along Eastman Street where the curbs on both sides were two long stretches of marigolds for block after block. And in the downtown area itself large plantings of flowers were just about everywhere.

Since we still had about 15 minutes before lunch we walked down to the river to check out the local Farmer's Market -- a space designed by Alden Dow, by the way. The place was jumpin'. Lots of local produce folks and craftspeople set up right alongside the Père Marquette Rail to Trails system and across from Y-shaped pedestrian bridge, or Tridge as it's called locally, that straddles the Chippewa and Tittabawassee Rivers.

Making our way back into downtown and to "The H" hotel we found Cafe Zinc, where we spent the next hour or so sitting on it's deck overlooking Main Street enjoying a pair of tasty sandwiches -- washed down with Prosecco.

After lunch and fumbling around with some confusing directions, we ended yup at the Alden Dow home. A son of Herbert and Grace Dow -- Herbert founded Dow Chemical in 1897 -- Alden became well-known for his modernist approach to design and construction and his home and work studio both reflect his personal and architectural philosophies.

Even though the complex is more than 22,000 square feet overall, there is nothing "grand" or enormous about it. While the studio reflects Dow's sense of architectural purpose, his use of hard angles, straight lines, uneven floors, bold colors and his patented block wall system of construction -- the home is, for me, more open, most connected to the physical surroundings (the pond, woods, etc.). While I'm not overly find of what is referred to as "midcentury Modernist" architecture --way too many straight lines and hard angles -- it must have been a fun place to raise a family.  Indeed, it was designed to be a space in which to live, raise children and so they did. They never lived anywhere else.

The tour of the home and studio, now a National Historic Landmark, has to be reserved in advance, costs $24 for the two of us (seniors) and lasted about two hours. Our tour guide was pleasant and cheerful enough but overall we'd rate the her a C+.

After we left the Dow house we drove literally around the corner to the Dow Gardens. The gardens are part of what was once the rather sizable Herbert and Grace Dow estate, to which the Alden House was also joined at one time. It was a gorgeous late afternoon to stroll around this lovely green space -- an exhibition of Dr. Seuss characters was on display scattered over the grounds. It was a fun place for kids and adults to meander among it's paths, some paved and others lined with wood chips, with unlimited shades of green -- and I mean the color green seemed to be everywhere in every hue imaginable. Occasionally, the green would be broken up by a swath of lovely flowers, or perhaps a small bridge would pop out of nowhere, or a maze would present itself demanding exploration.

The gardens were a particularly popular place for wedding photo shoots and as we left two groups were queuing up to take advantage of this luscious green space in the waning afternoon light.

After an hour exploring we made our way back to the car and headed for the highway and home.

What a grand way to spend our 33rd wedding anniversary -- thanks David!





the submarine room -- part of Dow's studio -- overlooking, or rather beneath a portion of the pond



Dora

"Dora"

"The Bumps"

Like Meijer gardens, an imaginative use of manmade with natural  flowers




Horton hears a who



these lovely memorial stone benches  are scattered throughout the grounds -- Meijer Gardens take notice -- stone lasts longer than wood and needs less attention

the Sun Bridge, designed by Alden Dow to form a perfect circle in the water




"Leaping Gazelle" by Marshall Fredericks

Green eggs and ham

Yertle the Turtle


Chihuly in the Japanese Garden

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